Introduction
You maybe have heard befor about term ( ENERGY VAMPIRES ) by watching the
famous film ( TWILIGHT ) which it’s event revolve about a fictional story of peopLe who feed in the twilight on the victim’s blood.
But have you ever heard about ( ENERGY VAMPIRES ).
You maybe found this term a bit strange !! But at the same time worthwhile,
because it’s expresses a real fact, has a great impact on our family, social and
professional life, not as a term ( VAMPIRE ) which is a figment of the author’s
Stephanie’s Mire imagination.
Let’s learn the meaning of the ( ENERGY VAMPIRES ), How can they be
diagnosed?, And what is the negative role they play in our life? , And how do we
deal with them?
WHO ARE THE ENERGY VAMPIRES ?
We maybe sometimes at the highest energy and activity, but once we meet
someone and talk with him a little while, we fell we lost all energy and vitality…..
And just after talking to them, we may fell frustrated, depressed, lethargic.
And nothing around us calls for optimism …..
IF you once fell this, you should know – and according to what bioenergy
scientists heve confirmed – you dealing with negative energy people.
In another word and according to ( tessa west professor of Psychology at New
York university ) energy vampires are anyone felling you are in a bad mood after
metting or calling him, and it’s the opposite of those with positive energy who we
are feeling vitality after meeting them.
HOW CAN WE DIAGNOSED ENERGY VAMPIRES?
We may not realize that we deal with ENERGY VAMPIRES daily basis within the
circle of family mem or friends or our Relatives or colleagues work, not without
diagnosed them, so that is necessary know the characteristics of this type of
people to avoid the negative effects resulting from dealing with them….
In this field, the research conducted by scientists and researchers indicated that the
ENERGY VAMPIRES :
Always he exaggerates things because he is a fan of dark drama….
He lives in a state of distress and poverty…..
Constantly Critical, Complaining, Sullen, Gloomy…….
Always complaining whit his wife and everyone around him….
He holds others responsible for his mistakes and bad situation he is in….
He doesn’t bother to look for problem’s solutions he is in……
CONCLUSION
We still have to arm ourselves with important skills that will allows us to deal
with this toxic type of people, like learn communication skills and when we
should end the conversation with them; so we don’t let them steal our vitality
and positive energy.
And we should tell to them ( NO ) just in time for that, this is when their attempt
to control us by spreading their negative energy……
And it’s important to set boundaries and red lines in relation with them, and
don’t let them to cross those limits…
And if the ENERGY VAMPIRES close to you, and you want to help him, you can
show sympathy for him, maybe you can help him to get rid of his negative
feelings he suffered from.
And offer solutions which you see as correct to his problems, and don’t forget
begins your meeting with him with a smile; because the smile is the medicine of
hearts, and it’s ethics of prophets and righteous people, and our noble prophet
recommended it to us , as he say : ( you can’t win People over with your money,
so meet them with a cheerful face and good manners ).
